Someone loving your body is not enough justification to deserve your love.
Who even knows why he loved your body anyway? Maybe he got off on the fact that you are so frail and easy to break.
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to make you feel bad by saying that, but I think that facing truths (and I don't mean the 'truth' that he loved your body for it's frailness, because I do not know if that is true or not, all I know is that it's true that he didn't value you) is a lot more valuable than finding something redeemable about someone who treated you like shit. The former involves growth and is perhaps more painful, the latter involves trying as hard as you can to stay where you are.
I think it's ashame and disgusting that after Medusa attempted to help you deal with your issues that you're now turning against her and saying she's like your mother and that she's a 'Mal N'
I'm a woman too. Do you hate me also over something which I have no control over? Being born female or male doesn't automatically make you a victim or target. It's the people with those attitudes that have the problems. Not the person themselves.
"WHAT are you doing to Luke? Why do you feel the need to CORNER people with stupid twistings and Gottcha's."
Erin, you said yourself that "If you stay at SW, you will face yourself" not a few minutes ago. This is exactly what's happening to Luke. He can't see it yet, though. Or if he does, he is resisting.
I don't have a problem with Luke as a whole person (this is where you are confused, as I still do stand by the fact that in certain contexts he is insightful, just not to himself with regards to what he's being attacked for right now), I have a problem with him denying that he has his own set of blinders, like the rest of us.